Category: Discipline

Your belief systems


“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams” Eleanor Roosevelt

Your belief systems are the fundamentals to your philosophies in your life. Every little belief system you have makes up your entire life. Everything you have and everything you are comes directly or indirectly from your fundamental belief systems.

You have a belief system about how good a friend you are, you have a belief system about, how good you are at your work! You have many small belief systems in your life, and your behavior comes from the core of your belief. You might not think about but they are right there in front of you. Continue reading

Task oriented vs. Result oriented


“If you want to be successful, find someone who has achieved the results you want and copy what they do and you will achieve the same results.” Tony Robbins

What does it mean to be task oriented and result oriented; and I thought about it why some people accomplish more than others. I will exemplified it in this blog, and point out some key elements that makes the difference. The reason for clarification of this topic is simply because a lot of people think they are being productive, and creating massive results. When we look at the actual results, we get a different picture. Continue reading

Saying yes when you want to say no


“When your values are clear to you, making decisions becomes easier.” Roy E. Disney

How often do you say yes to something that you actually want to say no to? My guess is, very often. Sometimes I catch myself doing it but why is it so difficult just to say NO? I mean It is just two letters N and O, it shouldn’t be that difficult, right? But the reality is, it is something that we all struggle with somehow, particularly with some people in our life; there are just some people that we have difficulties just to say no to. Continue reading

Take responsibility for your life


“Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated” Confucius

I want to dedicate this blog post to my father for being the person who always lead by example, and had always showed my brother and me what it truly means to take ownership and responsibility in life, thank you dad.

Personal responsibility has become our greatest challenge and in some cases our greatest enemy. Continue reading

How you start and end your day is going to determine the quality of your life (part 2)


“Being ignorant is not so much a shame, as being unwilling to learn” Benjamin Franklin

You will meet many obstacles during your day, and many times you might be, feeling frustrated, annoyed or irritated. Maybe you had a tough day at work and when you come home, the first thing you do is to turn on the TV or sit hours in front of your smartphone and just feel tired. Continue reading

How you start and end your day is going to determine the quality of your life (part 1)


“A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks extraordinary results” Wade Boggs

We all want to live a life with happiness and a sense of direction for where we are going, but it seems like very few wake up in the morning with a passion for life, a passion for their goals and dreams. Very few live their life with a sense of direction for where they are going. Continue reading